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Birth certificate falsehoods - a landmine for schools

It should be self-evident that principals and teachers, who act in locus parentis, need to know the sex of their charges in order to keep them safe. But to trans activists, this is heresy. 

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If a kid wants it, the market should supply it.

A cross post from The Ministry has Fallen substack that explains why transgender activism is the outcome of neo-liberal thinking that says the market can and should supply whatever the consumer demands. 

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When children are being sold a lie, that is everyone's business

Too many adults have abandoned their responsibility to teach children the truth about sex – that it is binary, innate, and immutable – and instead are sacrificing the future of children for the sake of trendy social niceties.

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Reality always wins

People who claim a 'gender identity' need to stop expecting everyone else to accommodate their comfort without reciprocating the courtesy. (Includes a link to our submission to the "Definitions of a Woman and Man" Bill.) 

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50 shades of nonsense

Opponents of the "Definitions of a Woman and a Man" Bill think emotion is more persuasive than logic. 

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Boys can't be girls - let's remind our politicians

Everyone has a biological sex. Denying that is not compassionate or progressive; it is a breach of trust by the adults whom children rely upon. 

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Two more years of telling gender lies to children

NZ parents will have to suffer two more years of their primary-aged children being taught lies about their bodies because the government has broken its promise to immediately purge gender ideology from the curriculum.

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Sex realism in schools

A new era of truthfulness about 'gender identity' is beginning in schools. What used to be acceptable pretence is now being questioned. What used to be best practice deference is being reconsidered. Read more for links to resources to help foster honesty, dignity, and compassion in your school. 

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Teach the truth - sex cannot change

Make your submission to the RSE curriculum consultation before it closes on 24 April. 

Children deserve to be taught the truth – that there are only two sexes, that sex is a reproductive category, and that it is impossible for humans to change their sex.

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Auckland Women's Centre betrays children

The Auckland Women’s Centre’s (AWC) opposition to the new Relationships and Sexuality Education (RSE) curriculum would be laughable if it was not so damaging to children.

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Parallel Dignity - how schools can respect the rights of all their students

Parallel Dignity recognises that all students deserve to be treated with respect but no one is obliged to agree with everything another person believes.

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It's not okay for schools to let boys say they are girls

When schools bend over backwards to give boys who say they are girls whatever they desire, they are callously overlooking the dignity and rights of all their female students.

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Time to start talking about the UK Puberty Blocker trial

A cross post from Active Watchful Waiting Australia about why we should be paying attention to the unethical Pathways trial. 

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PATHA goes to the Court of Appeal

On Monday 26 January, the NZ Court of Appeal will reconvene early after the summer break especially to hear an appeal from PATHA* about the High Court interim ruling of 17 December that gave ‘interim relief’ to the government’s puberty blocker ban.

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Lessons in Gender

A cross post from "The Ministry has Fallen" - how kids were taught that dismantling sex was moral, proper and clever. 

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The judge who knew too little and was swayed by PATHA

When PATHA sought an injunction to stop the government's ban on puberty blockers, the judge heard almost none of the evidence in support of the regulation and was not informed that PATHA's 'expert evidence' is nothing of the sort. 

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To be, or not to be, consulted? 

Public submissions are open until January 14 on whether parents should be informed instead of consulted about RSE content. Read about why RGE supports the change.

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PATHA puts a nail in its own coffin

PATHA has released new "Gender Affirming Healthcare Guidelines" that reveal it to be a body modification activist group, not a professional healthcare organisation. 

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Red-letter day in NZ

The government’s decision to halt new prescriptions of puberty blockers for the treatment of gender dysphoria is a welcome recognition that puberty is a crucial developmental pathway into adulthood that should not be disrupted.

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Stuff breaks its silence with bias, hypocrisy and misinformation

Last week the BBC was in the news for its "systemic bias" in reporting unfairly on trans issues. The legacy media in NZ has been playing the same game for years. If it wants to save itself from the huge embarrassment swirling around the BBC, legacy media needs to start reporting accurately and fairly on transgender issues or watch its audience numbers continue to decline. 

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Gentle parenting and the link to gender identity

The link between this parenting style and gender identity may not be immediately obvious but it became striking during the evidence given by Professor Alexandra Gunn in support of Wellington Pride at the Human Rights Review Tribunal in Wellington in July. 

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New RSE curriculum raises cautious optimism

RGE gives A- to the new RSE curriculum It is hugely improved but there are still some areas needing attention. 

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We need to talk about gender identity

In October 2025, let's make the most of the opportunities to talk frankly about gender identity:

A Genspect webinar

Helen Joyce's tour of NZ

A biased Media Council ruling

The hush-hush Human Rights Review Tribunal. 

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Wishful thinking to be elevated to a human right

Every protecton in the Human Rights Act for the safety, dignity, and fairness of women and girls is to be sacrificed in favour of the disconnected-from-reality feelings of people with transgender identities. 

Read on for RGE's deeper dive into what the Law Commission has recommended and what we can do about it. 

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The Law Commission has declared open season on girls' rights

In its "Ia Tangata" report, released on 4 September, The Law Commission has proposed major changes to the Human Rights Act that will remove the right to exclude people of the opposite sex from single-sex schools, public facilities, and many sports.
Although the change would also apply to boys’ schools and facilities, it is indisputable that the impact of these proposed changes would be far more profound for girls. Click to read our Press Statement.

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Use your voice and your vote

Elections for school Boards of Trustees are due to take place in September. It is time to hold schools to account for pushing gender ideology. Ask questions and vote! 

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# Not all librarians

Sex realist librarians are also struggling with the tsunami of children's books that promote gender ideology. They need our support. 

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Is it hateful to say humans can't change sex? 

If you haven’t heard of this important LAVA vs Wellington Pride case, which has been simmering since 2021, the crux of the dispute is that LAVA (Lesbian Action for Visibility Aotearoa) was excluded from a Pride event in Wellington in 2021 for holding the belief that men cannot become women.

The dispute has now reached the Human Rights Review Tribunal (HRRT) which is tasked with considering whether saying humans cannot change sex is a protected belief under the Human Rights Act or a view so hateful and harmful it does not warrant protection.

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Who's in charge - the Minister or the Ministry of Education? 

Why are resources like Navigating the Journey, that promote the gender ideological language and beliefs of the RSE Guide, still being used in NZ schools despite the removal of the Guide? 

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Pronouns as weapons of deception

Journalist, David Fisher, by using male pronouns for Vanessa, has endorsed all those who blithely affirmed a mentally unwell teen’s make believe that she had changed sex. He quotes an online friend of hers saying Vanessa was “deeply entrenched and trapped in his thinking”, yet Fisher has failed to join the dots and see that part of Vanessa’s illness was taking extreme measures to deflect attention from her eating.

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Transgenderism enables anorexia

Keen to avoid looking in the mirror at their own culpability, trans activists have studiously ignored the fact that Vanessa had a raft of other serious mental illnesses; OCD, ODD, autism and the well-documented and long-standing anorexia. It was only towards the very end of her short life that gender dysphoria manifested itself.

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The tragic loss of our daughter Vanessa

PRESS RELEASE 17 June 2025

It is with deep sadness that we, as the parents of Vanessa, speak out against the sensationalised portrayal of our daughter’s life and death in a recent article by David Farrier. We are heartbroken by the story that has been shared publicly and deeply disappointed by the way Mr Farrier has weaponised Vanessa's* distress and struggles with complex mental illness.

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An inexcusable failure

The story of our health and education system, in thrall to gender ideology, undermining a mentally unwell girl’s parents and ignoring the recommendations of her psychiatrist.

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Bamboozled by words

How gender activist language manipulates teachers and parents. 

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Puberty needs protection

“Puberty is the essential bridge between childhood and adulthood. We must protect every adolescent’s right to cross it, so they have the best possible chance at a healthy and free future,” writes Stella O’Malley in this announcement of Genspect’s Memorandum of Understanding on the Role of Puberty.

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Don't stop now

Five more ways to help expel gender ideology from NZ schools. 

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Picture book propaganda (Part 1)

NZ libraries are pushing gender nonsense to pre-schoolers. 

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Picture book propaganda (Part 2)

​Public libraries are funded by local government and library managers are responsible for writing and applying collection policies, in compliance with the guidelines of their local council and LIANZA (the Library and Information Association). Because public and school library collections are managed differently, complaints to each need to be handled differently.

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A hat trick for sex realism

April 2025 in NZ has been a good month for confirmation that there are only two sexes.

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Who needs puberty? 

Trans activists say that ‘transgender children’ should be able to go through the ‘right’ puberty. But the only ‘right’ puberty is the natural one launched by a person’s own body.

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Proceed with caution

At long last, the Ministry of Education has released the new draft framework for relationships and sexuality education and has opened it to public consultation. Overall, it is a vast improvement on the 2020 RSE Guide that was removed in March.

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Keep it simple

It will take patience and perseverance to break through the ‘be kind and inclusive’ catchcry. Key to getting our message across is keeping it simple. The following three strong points are good places to start the critical conversations with your family, friends, school, and MPs.

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Losing the plot at the library

In all the heat generated by Destiny Church’s non-peaceful protest at Te Atatu library on February 15, the underlying reason for the protest has become obscured. Tamaki talks about the need to protect children but none of the soundbites identify that it’s protection from gender identity ideology that is necessary. 

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